The prosecutors are happy to see any type of counseling that increases the chance that the incident doesn't happen again. Here is an in-depth FAQ with videos about how private counseling can benefit a case and the type of letter we will need from them (to prove you took some counseling).

It can be tricky to find a private counselor, I know. I suggest you ask your friends if they know of anyone first. You can also see if your job offers counseling as part of your health insurance. If you can't find one that way, just search the internet. Some therapists accept insurance, some don't. I think the typical fee will be between $60-$120 per hour.